Standing Strong Against Cyberbullies
Not sure what to do when you see cyberbullying?
This module will teach you the right ways to become an upstander – or a support for your friends who are being cyberbullied!
Click on the images below to download the complete sheet in PDF format.
Videos
Responding to Cyberbullying: The 24 Hour Rule
How to be an upstander: Part 1 Speaking Up Online
How to be an upstander: Part 2 Telling a Trusted Adult
Downloadable Infographics
DEBUNKING MYTHS ABOUT CYBERBULLYING
Myths
- “It’s okay if it’s just a joke”
- “It’s okay if everyone elseis doing it”
- “It’s not my problem”
Facts
- If it makes someone feel bad it’s not a joke – it’s just hurtful
- Following the crowd isn’t anexcuse to be mean
- If you saw it, you can report it, tell an adult, or check in with the person
BYSTANDER INTERVENTION MODEL
- Notice the event: when someone’s being treated badly be the one who notices.
- Interpret it as a problem: it’s not drama, it’s harm. A hurtful comment is a red flag.
Take responsibility: if not you then who? - Bystanders have power.
- Know how to help: there are many ways to help. Do what’s right.
- Taking action: courage is clicking help. Not ignoring.
When The Bully Is Your Friend: It’s online, but it can be closer than you think
Maura and Casey are best friends. One afternoon, Maura laughs while looking at a classmate’s photo.
Later, Casey sees that same comment posted online by Maura.
Casey starts to worry. Maura is her friend, but the comment was mean. She doesn’t know what to do.
In the end, Casey decides to be honest and she tells Maura to take the comment down.
Friends look out for each other, even when it can be uncomfortable.
